Pawns: Involvement of Children in Legal Proceedings

Ending a marriage or partnership is a serious matter and should be approached with care and consideration. It's important to remember that your children should not be used as leverage in the divorce proceedings. Putting them in the middle of a legal battle can have long-lasting negative effects on their well-being. 

Going through a divorce can be emotionally and mentally challenging for all parties involved. To minimize the impact on your children, it is best to keep them out of the separation discussions and court proceedings as much as possible. While it may seem tempting to involve them in order to win the case, it is not worth putting them through the stress and trauma of answering questions from various third parties.

Family lawyers assist in creating a parenting plan/agreement that prioritizes the best interest of the children—legal decisions in child-related cases are usually based on this principle, not on the demands or interests of either parent. Using threats or unreasonable tactics in an effort to control the outcome can harm your case in court. It is important to approach the situation with a focus on the well-being of the children, even if you have negative feelings towards your ex-partner.

Consider alternative options to resolve the divorce without involving your children. If necessary, seek the guidance of a family lawyer and can provide you with various options and guidance throughout the process.